Everyone loves a reason to party, so celebrating the pending arrival of a tiny tot is a great excuse to get together. But, before you shower the mommy-to-be with gifts, love, and plenty of attention, check out these five tips for throwing the perfect baby shower.
#1: Who’s in charge
It’s most likely that the expectant couple’s family will be most excited, being so closely linked to the new addition to the family, and want to plan the festivities. But, gone are the days when family members hosting a baby shower was considered taboo. According to PartyAmerica.com, a national party supply chain, “The shower can be hosted by a close friend or relative of the mother-to-be. Traditionally, it was considered improper for a family member to host a shower because it is primarily a gift-giving event. However, today family members commonly help or host the shower.”
#2: When to get the word out
Baby showers are traditionally celebrated two months before baby’s due date, and sometimes even after the baby’s arrival. Whether you’re a techie host and want to send out electronic invitations, such as ones found on www.evite.com, or are a regular Martha Stewart and making your invitations by hand, announcing party details at least four weeks prior to the baby shower is customary.
#3: What to eat
There is no rule that says you can’t serve just cake and punch at a baby shower, but hosting a lunch of some kind is common for these celebrations. Let your time and location be your guide when setting the menu. If you’re hosting a shower at a restaurant, a full luncheon is appropriate. If you’re hosting the party at home, finger foods and sweets are fun. And remember, this is the only type of event where making food into baby-themed shapes isn’t seen as creepy, so have fun with those diaper-shaped popovers!
#4: How to pass the time
Baby shower games are a fun way to break the ice with guests who may not know one another, as well as a good way to pass the time between cake and opening the presents. From digging for diaper pins in rice with a spoon to guessing what flavor of baby food is in each label-less jar, embrace this chance to get silly and focus on the lady with the growing belly.
#5: Where the guys are
Many modern baby showers are not a “no boys allowed” event anymore. Co-ed celebrations where the dad-to-be’s are showered with the same attention can be thrown with the same pizzazz as traditional showers. Just a head’s up: guys are less likely to want to participate in games, so either leave out the games or accept that guy participation may be low. Either way, there’s no reason not to include the men in on the celebration.
Remember that ooing and aahing over pint-sized baby clothes is only half the fun! With these tips in mind and a pregnant friend or relative to celebrate, the goal of showering the expectant mother can be a piece of pink or blue cake.
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